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Need to Travel Cheaply? You Can Do It, If You’re Daring!

April 20, 2010 By: Maria Category: Travel

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It would be hard to forget my student holidays, so many years ago!  In many ways those vacations taught us much about life.  At the end of each year, fired up with excitement and joi de vivre, a group of us would take off for some part of Europe, living on the smell of an oily rag!   Six, perhaps eight long weeks of summer holidays would be spent travelling, usually eating only one ‘not-so-square’ meal a day, because that was simply all we could afford. 

If only!

We would take the cheapest form of travel, accept lifts from people we met at hostels or walk.  On reflection, it seems to me that we walked for hours and hours every day.  ‘Shanks’ Pony’ is assuredly the most economical way to get from one place to another!  It’s also a fantastic way to stay trim! 

Wherever we stayed, economy was always in the forefront of our minds, so we’d suss out the local markets in the mornings, for there we could buy freshly-baked breads and seasonal fruit for not a lot.  That and a bottle of water served as breakfast and lunch for us. 

Greece was an exception.  I can still recall the aroma of beautiful jam doughnuts or slices of cheese pie. 

memories!

There were rows upon rows of them, all designed to tempt the tourists’ palate, which they did!  Who could forget those flaky, mouthwatering savouries?  Certainly not me! 

Actually, the cheese pie was my maiden voyage into the world of  feta cheese and filo pastry, though I didn’t realise this at the time.   A slice of that pie was incredible cheap and good comfort food for hungry semi-adults.  (Interestingly, I tried to replicate the recipe on my return home, but it was an absolute disaster as you may imagine!) 

Those were the days of cheap adventuring, or so I thought.  We’d written the book on ‘cheap’, that is, until I read a recent travel reflection!
 It was written by a young male who had come up with the optimal travel strategy for prolonging holidays and affording to eat at the same time. 

He referred to it as – Dumpster Diving!  

Sustainable living!

 

 Before I go further, let me say that I have a feeling that this is the sporting domain of the male species.   For the life of me I cannot imagine any woman taking part in this activity! (Apologies to anyone I’ve offended here!) 

He went on to explain that when he left home for the first time, to travel, his grandfather gave him some advice and that was, that if he were ever hungry, he should just go to the back of a doughnut shop or the likes, and there he would find some cast-off food. 

I have a feeling that this advice was meant for a time when he might get into a desperate situation.  Instead, he checked out the advice early on in his travels, and found that, not only could he find food, but that if he did it selectively and judiciously, he could save a lot of money. 

For those of you reading this and feeling a little squeamish, he cautions not to be and asserts that many of us would be reluctant to eat the food prepared in most restaurants if we were privy to seeing into the back kitchens

The best places for finding free food, according to him, are bakeries, doughnut shops, grocery shops (for used-by-date ‘throw outs’)  and pizza restaurants, because often the food is discarded still in containers, and perhaps safer for consumption,  since it hasn’t had to share a resting place with other garbage! 

 


He became so good at this that eventually he resented having to actually pay for food. 

However, he also cautions about being discreet when sifting through the trash.  He was once arrested and heavied by police when caught in the act!  So he advises that if you are going to live in this way, you should do two things.
• ‘Shop’ at night when few people are round.
• Mask your torch so that it is less visible to passers by (AKA security)!
 

So there you are!  If you have the money for you air fare, and if you plan to travel through industrialized, countries where we all know there is excessive waste, why not give it a go?  You’ll be able to extend your holiday.  And who knows?  You too might even become a professional Dumpster Diver! 

“Travel, Travel, And More Travel!” It CAN Be Yours!

April 12, 2010 By: Maria Category: Education, Travel

How often have you heard people say that they’d love to travel but they can’t afford it? And again, how often have you heard people saying things like – maybe I should have done that, or if only we’d done this! If only indeed! If that’s how you feel then you should have done it, so learn from what you didn’t do, and start planning to do something!  

Which one will I choose?
So many choices!

The reality is that there is no point in looking back with regrets. The past is gone and no matter what you do, you simply can’t recapture time. Nor can you make up for what you didn’t do! 

So, accepting that the past is gone, what about the future? Sorry, but that doesn’t really exist either. We all look forward to it. We plan for what we hope might happen.  But in reality, it may never come!  See, none of us has any  idea about what tomorrow will bring.  

Oh we anticipate its coming, we look forward to events, but there is a slim chance that we could be snuffed out like a candle and there would be no tomorrow. 

The unfortunate thing about possibly dying is that when they put you in that wooden box, they don’t ever let you out to play! How’s that for cold comfort? 

The holiday you should have had!

 

See, the fact is, that we are all on our way to death. We don’t like to think about it, but it’s true. Every minute, every hour, and every week that you spend dithering, wondering what to do, considering whether to take a particular risk, or whether to afford to do something or not, is one minute, one week, or one month of your life that has been chopped off.   

 

See, it’s sneeky!  You don’t notice it. It happens by stealth, but it does happen! Pretty depressing when you think about it like that, isn’t it! 

So why can’t you afford that holiday? Is it because you have a hefty mortgage on a house that you only use a quarter of?  Or maybe you run two fancy cars?  

 Maybe you are an indispensible, you know the type of person your boss just can’t manage without  You feel that you are the only person in the entire world who can do your job as well as you do.   

Huh? Think again! You are absolutely dispensable, and if you were to die tomorrow, guess what? Your superior would soon find a substitute – ‘the funeral baked meats’ and all that!  It’s a sobering thought I know. 

 BUT….. I’m really trying to give you a bit of a reality check!  And if I have succeeded, if I have given you a reality check, maybe it’s now time to take stock.  Ok, time to face the truth.  
Have been caught up in consumerism?  Are you living beyond your means? Are your debts are really stopping you from living?  If you answered yes to one or all of these,  it’s time to GET A LIFE!!!  But HOW?
 
Well, buying a smaller house might be an idea to start with.

   A cheaper alternative! 

 

 

Live with one car or maybe walk to work?

I can do this!

 

Give yourself permission not to clothes shop for six months!   Eat at home!  It’s probably much better for you anyway.   

 

Have a media fast! That way you will not be tempted by the sales ads that we all have become addicted to.  Here’s something you might like to do. Next time you are watching your favourite TV show, make a list of all the new gadgest being advertised that you didn’t know about yesterday.Are you tempted?
Do you need them?
Yes!! Of course you do!

But hey, wait a minute!  Haven’t you managed your life to date without them?  You know you have.  

 See, the reality is that we are all lured by the media into having the latest and best gadgets, the types that no kitchen would be complete without.  

But let’s face it. We buy them, use them for a couple of months, and then, they are consigned to the back of a cupboard.  The result is that we need new kitchens to house all the unused ‘must-have’ utensils that we have just acquired!!!   

Are you beginning to get the picture?  Are you beginning to realise that there are little pockets in your psyche that need tweaking?  But…are you prepared to TWEAK???  Are you ready to offload?

  

Now, make no mistake.  You will have to be strong if you make the decision to change, to put the brakes on your spending, to laugh in the face of temptation. There are lots of people out there who won’t understand whatever you’re doing. They’ll talk! They’ll gossip. But you know, there’s an old saying that I have learned. 

‘What other people think of you is none of your business’.   

Be assured. When you truly understand the meaning of this, gossip will not worry you in the least. 

What are they up to?

 

So later, not so much later, when you are boarding  that plane to wherever you decide you are going, your heart will be free, your wallet will be healthier, and you will be far less worried about your possessions. Moreover you will be in for the time of your life! 

 

As Saint Augustine said, “The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page”. Go travelling! 

Choose your travel pages!

 

Does Height Matter?

March 20, 2010 By: Maria Category: Personal Development

I work among people of varying heights and sizes.  Some are shorter than I am, but so many are so much taller.  Interestingly enough, many of the taller ones have parents who are considerably shorter than I am.  You have to wonder how and why so much changes in one generation.  So many theories abound about diet and additives in food and their affect on size.  But if we use that as a reason, wouldn’t everybody be affected?  Wouldn’t everyone be taller?

You know height can play a huge role in shaping our confidence.  What I noticed over the years as a teacher, was that the taller students generally speaking, were so much confident, so much more outspoken, and sadly, often much less tolerant of some of the shorter students.  I am not suggesting for a moment that the name-calling, and asides about height, or lack of it, were deliberately malicious, but I do know that they often hurt, and, they impacted on a child’s social performance.

Thinking about this reminds me of a story I read some time ago regarding a young boy who suddenly stopped growing due to a rare condition that inhibited digestion of nutrients in food.  In fact, the prognosis at the time was not a good one, and though he was fed supplements intravenously, his growth was permanently stunted.  You can imagine the effect this would have on a child, especially a boy!

Now far from feeling sorry for himself, this young boy had an inner determination, and that was to succeed at something athletic.  His sister loved ice-skating and he would often, as a frail youngster, go and watch her at the rink.  That’s when he determined to take up skating – against his parents’ better judgment of course!

Scott Hamilton Lives His Passion

But take it up he did, and before long he was impressing many with his obvious talent.  Height is not important for an ice-skater, whereas skill and dexterity are!  He had both.

Interestingly enough, some time later, when he was undergoing one of his many medical checkups, doctors realised that the boy had begun to grow again.  This was amazing!  How could this be?

Unfortunately his growth would never be enough to allow him to match his peers in stature, but it was evidence of his recovery and that was terrific news.  Now he would be able to live his dream, prove his worth, and fulfill his passion.

Today that same boy, Scott Hamilton, is a success story.  People don’t look at him and think that he’s short.  His height is not a consideration.  He is a former Olympic gold-medalist who now works as a coach, a mentor, and commentator. 

Mentor and Coach

 What people admire about him is his level of fitness, his achievements, his tenacity, and his will and determination to succeed. 

No doubt Scott’s parents played their part in determining who he really is and what he has become, for remember, that outer layer of our being is but a shell that holds together the person that we truly are.

So does height matter? Scott never allowed his height, or lack of height, to interfere with his grand plan to be the best, to aim high, and to win.  And yet, I am certain there would have been times when doubt crept in, especially during training and when competing.

We all experience doubt, but it is the way in which you embrace uncertainty that will decide whether or not you succeed.  Whatever you are trying to achieve in life, don’t allow doubts and critics to detract from your unwavering belief in yourself to succeed.  No doubt you will experience some failure along the way.  That is part of a healthy journey, a hiccup towards eventually achieving your goals.  Success was never meant to be easy.  Had it been so, it would hardly be worth striving towards in the first place.  Like Scott, remain determined and you too can stand tall!   Height matters –

Determine to Win!

 only if you let it!

Renegade Professional – Ensuring Success

March 18, 2010 By: Maria Category: Online Business

Starting out………..

I guess we all have to start somewhere.  That’s the hard part of trying to break the code of  Network Marketing.  Being the newbie on the block and trying to figure out where to start, who to believe, and where to source your information is just plain hard.  There’s an over-supply of information out there, people promising the world, overnight success all backed up with testimonials from people standing in front of the home of their dreams, or their flash brand-new sport cars.  Your mouth drools at the thought that all this might be yours.  Dreams of exotic holidays lull you to sleep.  All you have to do is just sign up and it’s yours for the taking!  If only it were that easy!

Anxiety plays a part:

It's too hard!!!

Often when we first start out, we are anxious and maybe even a bit desperate, and the need to make money can sometimes skew our reasoning.  Let’s face it!  There’s not a lot of fun in being broke.  And because we are feeling hard up and desperate, sometimes we just don’t see straight.  Everything seems attractive.  Everything appears credible.  We want to be part of it.  And not too many warn that the pathway is long, and arduous and full of twists and turns.

The result is that we opt into every conceivable list, trying this idea and that, in the hope of putting together all the pieces of the marketing puzzle.  It’s hard, isn’t it!  I recognize your pain because I have been there too.

A jungle of ideas:

Show me a way!

It’s a fact that, out in the big wide world of the Internet there’s a jungle full of predators and piranhas, and tigers.  You have to beware.  But that’s easier said than done.  You know how it is.   When you sign up for things and get on other people’s lists you are sure that this time you have found that needle in the haystack.  There’s so much glitz and promise and stories of wealth-creation that make you wish you’d signed up years before.  Yes, you have to beware!
So you read a wealth of books, attend hugely-expensive seminars, all the while chasing rainbow after rainbow in your search for that pot of gold.

My pot of gold

My Pot of Gold - Hoorah!!

The answer came by sheer chance.  A friend of mine suggested I check out Renegade Professional.  The name alone was enough to make me curious.  It had to be offering something different.  I began to explore.  That’s where I found Ann Seig and Mike Klingler.  And that’s where I changed my tactics.  That’s when I began to grow as an Internet Marketer.  That’s where I gained an unfair advantage over many people .

You see Renegade Professional is:
• The only A-Z business that is a click-by-click training program. 
• That breaks down every facet of online Business-Building into quick, easy-to-follow bites.
• A system that spoon-feeds you into a knowledgeable Internet Marketing Practitioner
• A system that provides seemingly endless tutorials and videos designed to turn you into a professional, a money-making professional!

Mike Klingler is intent on ensuring that you develop for yourself and for your marketing, the essentials that he initially overlooked.   They are:
• Having a keen insight for your business
• Developing your ability to influence others
• Developing an ability to communicate value
• Developing an ability to attract people to you through networking
• Developing an ability to inspire others by really connecting with them and listening to them
• Develop an ability to cultivate partnerships


This is an affordable educational opportunity with an incredible, almost limitless supply of support.  So why not take a chance?

Want To Succeed In Attraction Marketing?

March 16, 2010 By: Maria Category: Online Business

Need To Understand Attraction Marketing?  Here Are Four Tips That Will Help You To Succeed!

 1. Decide who you are pitching your marketing at

 Attraction Marketing might be the answer to your prayers if you are an Internet Marketer, struggling to reach your target number of leads.  This is a new and empowering way of attracting leads for your business.  However, if you want to implement this strategy successfully, you must first have a clear notion of the kind of people you are hoping to attract into your business.  Being absolutely clear on this is fundamental to your success.   Think about the following.

  • What problems might they have?
  • In what ways do you hope to address these?
  • What solutions could you possibly offer them?

 You see, before you can hope to have prospects coming to you, you will have to have worked hard to understand and perhaps even solve a problem that your prospects might have that has lead them  to find you in the first place..

 As an example, supposing you wanted to sell educational material in your business.  What kinds of people might you hope to target?  Some of you might say teachers, and to an extent you would be correct.  Teachers are always on the hunt for newer and better material.  To be honest, hey’re suckers for anything flashy that’s going to solve a problem!  Trust me!  I used to be one!

Living and Learning

However, if you think about it, you really have to cast your net much wider if you want your share of the proverbial pie!   Consider the following potential cusotmers.

  •  Parents out there in the community who are worried sick about testing and are struggling to help their children to become literate and numerate?  They have hopes and dreams for their children and when they find that they are struggling, they seriously look elsewhere for help.  That’s where they should find you!
  • And then there is another brand of parent, some might say, the lucky ones.  They are the parents whose children have been considered to be gifted and talented.  That is a completely different audience and you need to show, not only that you are catering for them, but that you understand their dilemma and can provide a solution for them.   And yes, believe me.  There is a dilemma in being gifted!
  • Consider also the growing number of parents whose children have medical problems, – autism, diabetes, attention deficit disorders, to name a few.  There are so many emerging problems.  Will you be ready to understand their needs?  Can you assure parents that they too will be catered for?  Hope so!  Your business depends on it.  They need to trust you.
  • And remember too, that repeat customers are vital to your business.  They are your bread and butter.  Catering for them demands that you consider their ongoing needs.

2. Consider this question.  Why might YOU be the most important factor in Attraction Marketing?

 Before you can have any possibility of success in Internet Marketing, it’s really vitally important that you have a strong and clear understanding of what it is that you are actually selling.  We are all aware of the competition on the Internet.  Therefore before you can actually market anything, you first have to get customers to engage with and trust, YOU.  That’s right.  The reality is that your success has much less to do with the physical products that you are selling, than with the relationship you are building.  First and foremost your customers have to trust you.

In the old system of Network Marketing the stress was on things such as your ability to communicate, to follow a script, to warm market, and to stand out from the crowd.  Thanks to the internet and more credible ways, these are becoming a thing of the past. 

 With Attraction Marketing, if you work effectively to sell yourself, your prospects will form a relationship, a trusting relationship, where they will line up to buy from you.  Let’s face it.  Anyone who has spent days, weeks even, pounding the pavements in rain, hail or shine, delivering pamphlets, knows that this method simply doesn’t work.  The percentage rate of conversions is dismally, and pathetically low, and hardly worthy of the expense incurred or the time spent delivering.  This is a demeaning form of selling.  There has to be a better way, a way where your prospects have faith in you that you can deliver!  With that established, they will trust you enough to want to but.

 3. Try to recognize and be assured that you have your perfect target market.

 Clearly there is no point in trying to find customers for your business through cold calling, warm marketing and the likes.  We already know that these methods don’t work.  What you need to attract are people who come to you, already convinced that they need and want to be involved in your business.  It stands to reason then, that people who have already tried and understood Network Marketing would be suitable candidates for your business.  It’s so much easier to sell to people who are already convinced of the strength of effective Network Marketing.

Your next group might be people looking for an online business – not necessarily your business, but an online business of some kind.  This where you need to utilise your strategies to convince them that yours is the business to get into! 

And your last group might be those who just need to make some cash but are not clear about how they might do this!

 4.   Absolutely understand their needs and go for it!

 Remember what your target market might comprise of. 

  • People who are already convinced of and have used Network Marketing. Previously.
  • People who know something about your company and want to get in and position themselves with the optimal up-line. 
  • Those who want and need to make money but are not certain about how they will do so.

 Keep in mind what they are all searching for, and know in your heart that you can deliver.  All of these people have a need, a want, to succeed.  Your job is to win them over by offering them something that others can’t – or simply haven’t thought of!

 You know it doesn’t take a Rhodes Scholar to work out what some of their needs might be.  You will often find that many  have already spent money on businesses trying to make money.  You need to be able to show them a better way.

 Almost all of them will have forked out incredible amounts of cash on leads that lead them nowhere.  Show them a better, less expensive way that will afford them a better class of leads. 

 Maybe you will have to inspire them with an imaginably better plan for success.  Plan to differentiate yourself from the masses. Be solutions-oriented.  Deliver on your promise and enjoy amazing success!

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Naplan Testing – Skewed Results Maybe?

March 08, 2010 By: Maria Category: Education

 

"The more you feed a brain, the more brain you have to feed"

“Avoid Fruits And Nuts. You Are What You Eat”.
Jim Davis

Ok – time for another rant!  Just had to include the Jim Davis quote!

  • Breakfast:  I want an honest answer to this.  What did you feed your kids for breakfast today?  Come on!  Did you give in to the Coco Pops, or the Cheerios, maybe even the Strawberry Blasted Honeycomb?  Anything for a quiet life is it? 

 

  • Conscience-Free Industry:  If you did, realise that you are propping up an industry that boasts profit margins of between 45% and 50%?  Be nice to be a part of that wouldn’t it.  And to be part of it (and to profit) all you have to do is shed every remnant of conscience you may have, maybe invest in some of their shares, and then, well, just keep buying the goods.  Yep!  Look no further than the breakfast cereal industry for sound investing!  It’s a strong, vibrant and growing industry and you will be assured of continued growth over the long term.  Besides, kids are a thriving (hm-maybe) commodity!!!  What are you waiting for?

 

  • My Childhood:  I was fed cereals when I was a kid.  Correction!  I was fed two cereals – Weetbix and oats (AKA porridge).  I loathed porridge, so Weetbix was in.  Oh I wanted Rice Bubbles and Corn Flakes, and …well actually there wasn’t much else around when I think about it.  But you see, I was one of seven kids, and my mum didn’t waste too much dosh on junk.  Amazing how the playing fields have changed!  Walking down the aisle of any supermarket is akin to walking into a lolly shop – every conceivable kind of cereal is there for the taking.  It’s a kids’ Paradise!  But don’t worry!  The labels are reassuring.  Some fortified with vitamins and minerals, others are high in fibre, and almost all of them jam-packed with sugar!  What more could a kid want?
  • Naplan Testing:  Hey, are you wondering why I’ve called this rant Naplan Testing?  Patience!  All will be revealed. 

 

  • A Disadvantaged School:  For some years I taught in a disadvantaged school in South Australia.  It was an extremely impoverished area.  Many parents were out unemployed, others who did work had little disposable income, and most had little understanding of nutrition.  The children all seemed sluggish in the mornings.  It was difficult to engage them in learning.  In time, we realised that too many of them were coming to school without breakfast.  That was further compounded by the little they had for lunch.  Now, I’d like to take the credit for initiating school breakfasts, but it was not me.  However, I certainly endorsed the idea and we formed a committee of teachers who were prepared to set up and help.  Of course we were somewhat restricted as to what we could serve as we had no way of cooking, so wholemeal toast and jams, Weetbix and milk, were all we could offer.  I don’t think I have ever seen so many children eat so much at any one time.  Of course it wasn’t long before we began to see positive results form this.  Still can’t see what Naplan Testing has to do with this? 

 

  • Early Morning Duty!  A teacher gets to see all sorts of things during the 8.30 to 9 o’clock duty.  I took it upon myself one morning to make a note of all the stuff (can’t call it food) I saw being eaten in the playground– Cheezles, coloured lollipops, jellybeans, chocolate, Tim Tams, chips, health bars (the sugary ones – are there any non-sugary ones?) Coca Cola and some sugary cold tea drink.  Every child I spoke to said they hadn’t had breakfast.  And no, this was not at a disadvantaged school.  This was at a decidedly advantaged school where parents should have known better.  and let me say that this was not a one-off happening.  I saw this eating pattern time and time again.

 

  • Naplan Testing: So what does all of this have to do with Naplan Testing?  There are so many studies that attest to the importance of a healthy breakfast for optimal learning.  There is a direct correlation between having a healthy breakfast and the ability to learn.  There is a direct correlation between a healthy breakfast consumption and attention span.  Having some complex carbohydrates and protein for breakfast will ensure a much slower absorption into the body and ensure a retention of energy.  But if children have had either no breakfast, or a sugar-laden snack to eat on the run by way of breakfast, what are the chances of their doing badly in a test situation?  To me there is a skewing of results.  Maybe Naplan Tests do not test ability necessarily.  I suggest they might be revealing some hidden, potentially ominous, health problems.

 

Julia at the Helm!

Julia has the answers!

Look forward to your comments either on my blog or at:  maria@freedompursuits,com.au

Naplan Test – Are We Putting The Cart Before The Horse?

March 07, 2010 By: Maria Category: Education

The recent Naplan Testing, an initiative of the current Labor party in Australia, has drawn much interest and provoked ongoing debate amongst parents.  There is intensive discussion within the parent body about what teachers are, or are not doing for the children in their care.  Many have their own ideas about what needs to be done, and how quickly it has to be effected, perhaps, dare I say, before the next wave of Naplan testing? 

Sadly, little attention is paid to what is not in place for a teacher, things that greatly impact on teacher effectiveness and ultimately to student learning outcomes.

But for the time being, I would like to steer the debate away from the actual testing, and from teacher performance.  There are plenty around who will want to discuss the two from an academic perspective, and others who will embrace the blame-game approach.  Neither, in my opinion, will be entirely correct, for beneath this issue of student learning is a corrosive, somewhat insidious problem that has developed almost by stealth over time.  It must be dealt with.

 Purpose of Tests:  The Naplan Tests were introduced into the schooling system to try to gauge student progress in Literacy and Numeracy, over time.  Students are tested in years three, five, seven and nine.  To their credit, the government has put in place, a methodology for comparing one school against another given particular criteria, which all seems well and good.  Keep in mind those two words, ‘over time’.

You see, there are other factors that either inhibit or promote learning, and that is health and nutrition, and no one government, past or present, has even remotely considered the fact that teaching and learning, and nutrition and behaviour, go hand in glove.  To be honest, what I see happening in schools today leaves me wondering if the Rudd government should have sought to explore the subject of nutrition and behaviour, well before considering testing.

Prying or Caring Teacher?:  As a teacher I have taken time, for a number of years, to check on what children are actually eating in the hours they spend at school.  Sure, I have no real way of monitoring what children eat at home (except to study the habits of parents when shopping, and that can be frightening!) but just simply looking at the contents of a child’s lunch box, and seeing what lurks there and what doesn’t, gives me enough evidence to suggest that in there might be a link to the generally bad and attention-deficit behaviour that pervades schools today.  And believe me, that sort of behaviour wasn’t there as little as ten years ago.  Yes, we had some problems but they don’t compare with today’s statistics.

Nutritious Lunches:  Children know whether their lunches are healthy or not.  They can tell you.  And they always have somebody to blame if there’s junk inside.  Even in year six when they exercise their rights about everything else, they take zilch responsibility for lunch-box contents! 

Conduct a lunch box ‘Show and Tell’ (yes, I know there are many of you reading this who might say it’s none of a teacher’s business but bear with me) and you’ll find out that there’s precious little actual life in the boxes.  Most of the food has been processed beyond recognition, white bread sandwiches, chips, cheezles, fruit straps, cup cakes………..the list goes on!

Expensive to buy, many of these so-called treats are left abandoned and languishing in the school yard with the odd teeth-mark impressions that suggest they have failed the taste test.  Take some time to read the contents label of some of these.  I have no idea as to what most of the additives and colourings and flavourings comprise, but bet your bottom dollar so why would we feed them to our children?  Does it make us culpable? 

Tuck Shop: And by the way, all of this is often compounded by the offerings in the school tuck shop, where children can feast to their hearts’ content, on a myriad of ‘healthy soft drinks’ that are anything but healthy (or soft).  Another initiative on the scene is the sugar-laden slushie, a sticky colourful concoction.

Or they can buy reduced-fat, but still fat-laden pastries, cakes, and pizzas with additives that will ensure they could still be around when we are all dead and gone!  And just maybe after feasting on these they might embark on further classroom learning, and maybe even engage in some Naplan Testing!

 Is it any wonder their test results are down?  Is it any wonder their behaviour is in question?  Is it any wonder teachers are tearing their hair out?  On whom might we cast blame?

Fruit Break:  Some years ago, I introduced fruit breaks into my classroom, long before they became fashionable.    I was strict.  It could only be actual fruit, or vegetables,  but noting masquerading as fruit.  I was tough.  Even children who looked at me pleadingly (or witheringly) were not allowed to feast on exceptions.  And before long almost every child in my class was bringing fruit.  Mind you, I always ensured I had a few pieces of fruit on hand for the child who consistently had a fruit-free lunch-box.  The fabulous outcome of that was that the end of the year I had two parents who came to thank me for turning their children on to fruit!  EASY!

 Aggressive Behaviour and Diet: 

There is a wealth of credible literature on hand that links disruptive and aggressive behaviour to dietary problems, problems that can often be corrected by the altering of the diet.  Moreover, many studies have been done that prove that a change of diet in criminals has effected a dramatic change and decline in offensive behaviour.  Now there’s a scary thought when you think about the rising incidence of crime in our society!  And does it not challenge us as parents and teachers to do something positive for the children in our care?

 South Cumbrian Alternative Sentencing Option:  One notable study in the 1990s was the South Cumbrian Alternative Sentencing Option diet in England, which achieved spectacular results simply by altering the diets of young delinquents with aggressive behaviour.  The scientific advisor, Professor Derek Bryce-Smith, was emphatic that defective diets actually altered the chemistry of the brain and could cause loss of control.  ‘Contrary to what is taught in medical school,’ he said, ‘severe dietary deficiencies exist widely among the general population, and these factors particularly influence brain function’.

 Attention Deficit and Stress Levels in Teachers:  If that truly is the case, we are headed for great trouble if we don’t stop, take stock, and take massive action.  We already have large numbers of teachers opting out of their profession at an early age, due to stress, lack of support, and the unacceptable level of attention deficit problems that seem to be part and parcel of the classroom setting, and trust me when I say that there are plenty more of as-yet-undiagnosed students who are attention deficit!

Those of us who have been teaching for longer than we’d care to admit, have had to adjust tour teaching and interaction with students over time.  We have struggled to find ways of dealing with unacceptable behaviour, by attending behaviour management courses, putting students on day-to-day management plans, and resorting to tangible rewards such as stickers and prizes.   You know, when you come to think about it, the bad behaviour has actually crept up on as almost by stealth, just as wrinkles, imbalance, and old age gradually tell us we are in the final stages of our living.  Could it be that some of our students are coming into the final stages of classroom living and learning as we have known it?  Perhaps yes, if we are to stop the attrition rate of teachers!

 Where to?  Do teachers have to go it alone?  Where does a teacher’s responsibility begin and end?  You see, from where I stand, education is a shared responsibility between teachers, parents, and governing authorities.  We cannot and should not, separate the three.  If we really want children to succeed, and if we really want the younger generation of teachers to stick around, start at the coal face.  As teachers, we have the right to ask that parents meet us half-way at least, to discuss the diet concerns.  We have the right to ask that parents meet us half-way on behaviour, and we certainly have the right to demand that Government take better responsibility for ensuring that all of this is addressed if they want that younger generation of educators to stick around and if they care in any way about the health of the students in their care!  Perhaps educate parents first.  The coal face is a very good place to start!!  Naplan testing should wait.

Love your thoughts on this.  Feel free to comment on my blog, or send me an e-mail at: maria@freedompursuits.com.au .

A Story of Success!

December 30, 2009 By: Maria Category: Personal Development

Here’s a little story about a group of frogs that I’d like to share with you. 

One day a group of frogs was travelling through the woods, as frogs tend to do!  It was getting dark and not easy to see.  Suddenly two of the frogs disappeared down a very large hole.  The other frogs looked down in alarm.  They realised it was a very long way down for a frog and all of them decided that the poor creatures were as good a dead.  There was absolutely no way that they could jump out of the pit, or be rescued.  They all agreed that they’d better just resign themselves to their fate.  “Sorry mates!” one of them yelled down (they were Aussie frogs!).  “There’s just no way you will be able to get out.”  The others agreed, but the two frogs ignored the comment and kept jumping higher and higher in an effort to escape.

Eventually though, one of the frogs accepted that there was no way out of the hole, and gave up, dying very soon afterwards at his friend’s feet.  Still the other frog refused to give up.  He kept on jumping and jumping, higher and higher.  All the while his friends kept telling him just to give up, to accept his fate and die.  But, the frog continues and with one last fearless propulsion, he jumped really high and managed to escape, landing on the forest floor in exhaustion.  His friends were in awe of him.  “Didn’t you hear us tell you to give up?” they asked?  The frog looked at his friends in amazement?  “Hear you?  Well no!  You see, I’m deaf!  I just thought you were encouraging me!”

There is much to learn from such a simple story.  How many times have we listened to the frogs of this world, the dream stealers, telling us that things are too hard, that we won’t be able to do something, that the hole is too deep?

There again, have we ourselves ever been guilty of negativity when others around us have had a dream?  You see, dreams are what life is made of.  They are our hopes for the future, the corner stone of our being, and the reasons for us to get out of bed in the morning.  And if we accept this as being true, then not one of us has the right to interfere with other people’s dreams.  The reality is that the finest gift you can give anyone is the gift of encouragement.  It is that very gift that will allow a person to reach his full potential.  Do you see the power we all have to either make or break?  Don’t be a dream stealer.  Instead, choose to be a dream builder.

From today, decide that you will encourage everyone you meet.  Don’t let you personal fears, or your limiting beliefs alter how you deal with others.  It is not yours to decide whether a person can or can’t do something.  Think carefully before you speak, bearing in mind, the power of your words.  How you respond to someone might well be the difference between success and failure.  Your faith, your encouragement, might well be the foundation on which something great will be built.

“If everyone received the encouragement they need to grow, the genius in almost everyone would blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond the wildest dreams.  We would have more than one Einstein, Edison, Mother Teresa, Dr. Salk and other great minds in a century.”  Sidney Madwell

 “You see things and say, “Why”.  But I dream things and say, “Why not?”  George Bernard Shaw

Affirmations for a New Year

December 30, 2009 By: Maria Category: Personal Development

Affirmations for a New Year
In two days’ time the New Year will have arrived, another year in which most of us will have dreams and hopes for the future. It’s a time when we all make resolutions to improve and change. Sadly, many of our resolutions die almost as quickly as they have been put in place. I suspect the reason for our failure to maintain resolutions is that they are not constantly visible to us, and since all of us lead such busy lives, there is a tendency for them to be relocated to the back of our psyche.
In the last year I have been working on affirmations that have helped me through some testing situations. They are on a poster in my study, and so, are visible to me each and every day. I refer to them often at least daily, and this keeps me focused on my journey. The good thing about using them is that you can almost view them as a check-list for your accomplishments. And you know, being able to see positive results from doing this has become a very assuring part of my life.
In looking back over this year I have been amazed by how many of my affirmations I have been able to check off as achievements. That has been very satisfying. My decision to post them on my blog was in the hope that some readers might benefit from trying out the idea. Of course you would probably like to personalize them to suit your own needs.
If you choose to follow the idea, remember that the idea is to repeat them daily, twice daily, with love and faith. In time you will see that your life will be truly fulfilled.
• 2010 is going to be a wonderful year for me.
• Success is a large part of my everyday living.
• My affirmations, my dreams, are coming true.
• My wishes for my family are being fulfilled.
• Our financial worries are disappearing, day by day.
• My business interests are blossoming.
• I am healthy and energetic.
• My travel plans are becoming an actuality.
• Everything in my life is improving.
• I envy no-one.
• I affirm everyone I meet.
Best wishes for an affirming New Year!

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Fearing Failure? It May Just Be A Precursor to Your Success!

December 29, 2009 By: Maria Category: Travel

Do you fear failure in setting up an online business?  Is your fear so real that it makes you reticent to even try?  You know, when we first start out in any business, the one thing that we fear most is the possibility of failure.  Lodged deep in our psyche, is the knowledge that success is not going to happen overnight, and buried even deeper is our worry that things won’t work out at all.  But the reality is that most of us who try, will fail before we succeed.  If we can accept that, if we can accept failing many times, the truth is that there is a much greater chance that we will eventually succeed.  Sounds a little crazy, doesn’t it?  Let me explain.

No-one would dispute that there is something a little daunting about the possibility of failure.  We worry about what people might think or say about us.  We worry about money lost.  We are mindful of time spent and we all know that out there in the big wide world, there are so many people just waiting for us to crash.  Then they can say, I told you so.  You shouldn’t have gone there in the first place.  Everybody I know who has tried this has failed.  Look at the money and time you have wasted.  And that is why failure is so ugly, so demeaning, and so capable of reducing us to a screaming heap.

But stop and think about it.  What if you were able to twist that thinking around and try to see all your failures as successes?  How might that change things?

You know, the New Year will be here in a few days and with it will be set in place, a myriad of resolutions for change.  Resolving to improve is something we all do each and every year.  I suggest to you that this year, short of coming up with an array of sure-fire ways to succeed, why not instead, determine a failure plan?  Just imagine if you could actually plan to fail many times over.  Think about the different ways in which you will advertise your business – perhaps online advertising, some banner ads, flyers at a particular shopping mall, warm marketing, e-mail marketing – you get the picture.  Accept that even with all of these in place, you are going to fail many times over.  Now determine that you will always celebrate those failures, that you will highlight every failure, every week, and then celebrate each and every one of them. 

This will sound like madness to most people, but you know, whether you believe it or not, the fastest way to become successful, is by working through your failures.  There is no one business in the world that does not experience failure, failure in marketing, failure in acceptance, failure in performance.  They have their good times and their not-so-good, but they keep going.  They work on their image.  They work towards perfecting their advertising.  You see, perfection is non-existent in the business world.  There is always work to do.  So if you can accept failure, if you can celebrate its existence and keep going, then you will be on the pathway to success.

It’s important that you understand that the percentage of failure in direct marketing companies is high.  This is not because it doesn’t work.  It absolutely does!  No, the failure is due to the fact that people give up when they have tried something once and decided that it didn’t work, and because they’re simply not prepared to try again, or alter the angle of their advertising, or to pursue different tactics.  However, and this is important, the smaller conversion percentage that works is that very percentage that can earn you a mind-blowing income, one that is truly worth celebrating.  That’s the percentage that you must focus your attention on being part of.

Consider that you spend one thousand dollars on advertising for three months and make no money.  That’s the worst that has happened.  You have spent three thousand dollars.  But if you keep going and in the fourth month make six thousand dollars, then you have two thousand dollars in your pocket.  You could have given in, you could have obsessed about what was not working for you, and had you done so, there would have been plenty of people around to remind you that you should have listened to them.  Fortunately for you, you didn’t.

So my advice to you is to take the bull by the horns, decide on your tactics of operation, and stop worrying about things that are not going to work.  See the glitches along the way as part of the success road you are travelling on.  Plan to celebrate your failures and soon those small diamonds of success will show up on your doorstep.  Go on then!  I dare you.  Celebrate your failures and journey towards your success.


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